Hi. My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now. Our love making has been very scattered throughout this year. We did it too much, not enough, not at all, every second. Recently, we thought we were doing a really good job of keeping balance. Unfortunately, the other night, we started and as soon as we did, all I wanted was for him to finish me. He did and I started crying because I felt so terrible. I had promised to never be that person that did physical stuff just to get off. All of a sudden th
Thank you very much. This has certainly put things into perspective. I do love and care about him enough to stop the crying and be supportive and give back to him what he gives to me. Your excellent advice has been taken to the heart.
My boyfriend and I will have been together for 5 years in February and we are both 26 at the moment. He comes from a divorced family and is the oldest of the family. His parents divorced when he was a teen and it wasn't messy but simply that his parents "fell out of love". Both his parents are very civil with each other and call each other when they have to. His mom has remarried and his father has just dated the same woman for some time now. I don't know if this is imp
So it turns out I talked to him about what happened. I feel so much better that I did. I realized once I told him, that I felt better than I had been for months. He's known for about a month now, and slowly but surely he's finding his trust back. I know that I am young and I haven't experienced life yet, but I think about it, and the time away from him was a time to find myself. I realized that anything could happen... good or bad.
I devote to myself that I would never let anything like this happen
I have been married to my 2nd husband for almost 12 years and I have been dealing with a similar situation during this whole marriage. To men everything is visual and physical and to women it is emotional. That's why we react more and to them it's nothing. I know marriage is supposed to be " in sickness and in health" , but a porn sickness is very hard to deal with, especially when the spouse who is creating the problem by viewing it, doesn't see any harm in it. He justifies it. I
I recently lost my job and nearly my family, these past few months have been great for me and up untill recently i thought it was going good for my wife as well, but i guess not. After i lost my job i did the right thing i had told her right away she take it very well and was very upset i had no idea that the feelings she were bottled up inside for months. She did give me a signs here and there that she was feeling lonely and discouraged and i totally missed every sign that was given. Well she finally told me about these feelings that was feeling towards me and she ha told after i had lost my job which wasn't very cool, i kinda felt like i had did everything wrong and there was nothing i could do about it. To top it off over the weekend we had went on a camping trip with one of her freinds and his spouse and with other freinds of hers from high school. That night was probably the worse, again i did everyhting wrong i got mad for no reason and i had hardly talked with here the hole night. by the end of the night those bottled up feelings came back up again. And needless to say the over the next couple of days were kinda scary cause i had no idea what was going through here head. On Monday morning while she was getting ready for work i had checked her phone for txt messages that she might had sent out and i seen a couple of them there sent to a paticular freind of hers that had seemed to be as if though she had cheated on me but she swears up and down that she did'nt. So i had no choice to believe her because they had just met after so many tears of being out of contact. We have since then talked about everything so far it is ok. I just need some advice on what to do next to make sure that i dont fall back into my old self and to make sure we don't get to this point again...
Wow, I'm so glad I saw this post. I am in exactly the same situation. Steve and I have been together for 2.5 years, living together as well, and his actions sound IDENTICAL to John's. The two times I get the most upset are when I'm getting ready, as you said, or when I'm in the kitchen making a meal (just because I'm trying to accomplish something, there might be a hot stove, a full bowl of something spillable, etc). I've actually told Steve that his actions bother me, but I haven't gotten any positive r
How do you deal with a future mother-n-law that wants to be in Complete control over you and her sons (my fiance') relationship. We have been together for almost 4 years now. Of that 4 years engaged for 2. We are just now living together and have been for about 4 months. I have been divorced before and had two beautiful daughters from that marriage . My ex-mother-n-law and I still have an excellent relationship that continues to grow over the years. My fiance's mother , however, is having a huge power st
Your story sounds just like mine. I was married to the same type of man and what's really weird is that he had one brother and they all treated me in the same way yours does. You have every right to have these feelings. Do not feel any guilt for it. And please do not beat yourself up for speaking out about it. This is a REAL problem that needs to be addressed. It ended my marriage to the father of my two children. So, do not hesitate if you love him. Please get help. It is a horrible thing to go through.
I really agree with the other opinion,. your husband needs to stablish with you priorities and boundries. YOU ARE his family now. He needs to grow up and be a man, He is not the little mamas boy that needs approval from his mammy or anyone else at any level, he do NOT need to pleace his parental family anymore, he needs to concentrate in protect you and the baby, and when the mother in low is unrespectful to you He should stand as a man for you,. The big problem