Many of us have been there. The realtionship is good and we have kids but men are still scared of the commitment for whatever reason they have but they are also scared that we might leave them after all those year but they still won't propose. So i ask what do us women do after being with someone for 13 years in my case and have one child plus he wants more but i want to get married and he's scared. How do you stay in a relationship for so long and there is no cheating involved. I just want the commitmen
I'd like to see a topic on the site exposing the hypocrisy of politicians like Newt Gingrich (divorced and remarried multiple times) and religious leaders like Jimmy Swaggart (who famously said “I’ve never seen a man in my life I wanted to marry...if one ever looks at me like that, I’m gonna kill him and tell God he died.” - but didn't have a problem cheating on his wife with a prostitute).
I am gonna be open & honest, because I feel that is the BEST way.
You relationship has obviously been an rollercoaster since day 1. Cheating, lies, deceive-lots fo back & forth-he say she say. WHY would you even decide to get married-especially with doubts??! OK so ya are together- BUT take it as a woman's intuition-You love him, but not the same way. MAMA- we get tired, & its an obvious reason to just let it go. Theres NO reason on why you shud still fight for something when one side o
OKay well heres the background on my marraige. My husband Shane and I met in highschool through some mutual friends. I graduated at semester and started working full time, he showed intrest in me so i gave him a chance. Knowing he had a past as a ladies man, also cheating on his ex-girlfriend(just making out with another chick-who happened to be my best friend erica) at a kegger one night. He called his ex the next day to explain what happened and they broke up. Anyway for the next 2 years of our relatio
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Sweetheart, I am so sorry to hear of your dilemma. To be harshly blunt: yes you made a mistake. Not that this young man is a horrible human being, but he is human. Before I continue telling you what you do not want to hear, let me give you my qualifications for a valid answer.
I married young (19). I found out after he left me that he had cheated on me many times throughout the course of the relationship. I married the man I had given my virginity to. I'm also fairly well educated in some scie
I don't really want advice as I know what I must do. I just hate that it's come to this for so many reasons. I married a wonderful man 27 years ago who is kind, generous, attentive, and a serial cheater. His first affair took place 7 years into our marriage. We both worked at the same place and I found out he was seeing someone who also worked there. I was humiliated and embarassed and his infidelity affected my job. We had a 2 year old son at the time and after trying
From the limited information you provided, it sounds like there are ambiguous boundaries on both sides of this relationship.
To be clear, I don't believe these actions justify cheating or infidelity in any shape or form, but I would suggest that you may benefit from attending counseling with your partner to participate in some role clarification.
Many times trust issues come about because we fear offending a partner or appearing as the emotionally overbearing one in the relationship. However,
Thank you for your advice. I am going to tell you the whole story why this all happened in the first place. Im from NY and my ex is from NJ. After 3 years of dating he told me to move in with him. To make the relationship work I moved to NJ, I changed to a university in NJ. I left my family and friends in NY. This was all new to me. Here I am, in NJ where I have no family or friends; just him and his family. My ex was always working, he would leave in the morning at 6:30 a.m. and not get home someti
My fiance and I have known each other since high school and have dated on and off since then; about 8 years now we have yet to be in the same state for more than a week. We were together officially a year before the engagement and have been engaged for a year now. He is 22 and I am 20 now and we will be both soon be graduating from seperate colleges in two totally different states. We will be getting married next year after graduation. We only get to see each other for holidays and breaks and its u
You've got to realize that he's really hurt. You broke his trust and he's not ready to deal with it yet. Give him a little space. Then maybe he'll talk to you, but right now all he hears when you say anything are lies. And the fact that he found out through text message and not from your mouth doubles the pain. Ask yourself, would you have continued on with seeing this other guy if you hadn't gotten caught? That's what your man is wondering right now. Even if he takes you back, it's going to be a long ti
Sometimes affairs totally blindside us. Sometimes, we could have seen it coming ... if we'd known what to look for or paid a little more attention. What are the warning signals of a cheating partner?
I am 25 years old, I currently going through a 3 1/2 year break up because I cheated; I kissed a guy and he read it through a text. I apologized to him a million times but he refuses to take me back. He is not interested in anything I have to say. I lived with him and now I have to move back to my parents house. I want him back so bad. My world has fallen on my head. I feel like my heart is tearing apart. It was a mistake that i will never do. This was a well learned lesson. He said he is done with
I'm sorry, this may be blunt, but I feel like you have answered your own question. If you are not completely into this guy then you need to find someone who you are into. I was in a relationship with a guy who was playing the field when we met and he never stopped even though we decided to be exclusive.
The entire time I was completely into him and thought we were heppy and I found out on numerous occassions that he'd been cheating on me the entire time we were together, I, like an idiot, forg
It is very difficult to answer questions when it comes to marriage whether to stay or leave. What you have to do is think about it in terms of, it is STD's now but what can it be later? Also you have a child that will get older could you live with out his or her father being around? Or could you deal and handle your child seeing and acknowledging the stress/depression thier father is putting you thru? Sometimes you want to hang on but you have to think of it has what are you hanging on to and
Need help...Ive been married for three years got married when i was 19. My husband is the only one I have ever been with.We have one child who is one year old, My husband decided to leave us a little over a year ago.Since we been seperated we been back and forth with each other still being sexually active. Just recently i went to the doctor and found out he gave me a STD. So i told him and he denies ever doing anything with anyone else, but i know i havent been with anyone.I want to forgive my husband bu
I have a similar situation, my fiance seemed to be rather excited about our new relationship, but it died down after that.
We do spend a LOT of time together, more than the both of us think is probably good for our relationship (if you do different things, spend time apart and realize how much you miss, or want, or need the other person, it really helps put things into perspective). Another thing would be body image. I know my girl has commented on multiple times that she doesn't feel c
Lets start with the cheating: Obviously, cheating creates a break in the trust. When you take back a cheater, it is a signal to him/her that he/she can get away with it. The likelihood of a second offence is extremely high. That doesn't mean that you can't save the relationship, but it is hard.
The kids: I can't imagine how much that incident must have hurt you as a mother. The 14 yr old was old enough to know what he did was wrong. That means you really can't blame your boyfriend f
While I don't condon cheating in any way,shape, or form Id much rather break up with someone then cheat. If you have specificly called him out on his behavior saying "what your saying is ____ hurtfull, disapointing" and has not stoped then your best bet maybe cut your looses he just might be too immature for you.
But thats just a guys perspective.
PS if you cheat, then darlin that will become ammo for any future thing that you do. Furthermore hes acting the way he is most likly out of fear th
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